do NOT try to CHANGE someone.

even when you tried so hard, you can't change other people personality.

yeah, that is how life goes on, sometimes we want everything go as we want .
we want surrounding by people that understand us, people that always support us and have the same thought as us.
want the happiness atmosphere, friendly and easy going people that can cooperate with us.
and living with someone that can bring the peacefulness, the warm-hearted and can make us feel most like home.

but most often, life doesn't seems going in the same track.

even ONLY one person can destroy anything.
people that have a completely opposite behaviour as what we want , it's actually someone that really close to us. It might be someone that interact with us everyday, annoy us.
keep thinking positively. you can make it as your own challenge, for you too maintain your own feeling, to avoid negative behaviour that cause by them, to do not let them control your feeling.
and from that point, -let's assume that we have a great life- we might want to grab them, and bring to our life that more happening, more friendly, more warm, so that this person can be open and enjoying the like us, or most welcome if they can change their behaviour.

but you must remember, the most important is the person effort to come and adjust with our life. It will never work if the person it self doesn't want to move on and changes their life, for their own good.
If they feel their life is enough , they won't make any move, even how hard you tried, if it's not base on their effort, it will never work.

I didn't say that we wasted our time, never in the world called wasted, but bare in mind, sometimes we must watch out on what we are doing. better to find some other way to figure out rather than stuck with something that you know will never work, right?

so, I'm trying now... trying to come out with different solution to be able facing this kind of personality.
and never NEVER NEVER give up! keep searching and pray. hopefully will get answer, and will be more stronger.

someone said that " if you never hurt, you will never learn"..
yeah, I should be more stronger than this.....