I started to questioning my self, what actually I need from a friend.
We do experience all the type of friendship which come and go, and some of them are stay and build our character, even though their left, but they might left some footsteps in our life, that make us changes, and teach us to do certain things. but what am I actually looking for in persons character?
Frankly speaking, I don't ever regret for whoever I have hung out with, even it's for a reason or for a season, everyone is great, and the next step that will happen is "are they will stick with you for a long time?"
this question will be answered after you step up on certain stages of friendship. Friends that I have made will stick with with me for a long term when we full fill our need in physical and psychological. Problems are actually one step further to this stages. mostly, after I have a fight or misunderstanding with a friend and figure out our feelings to each other and have a reconciliation, our friendship will be stronger than usual.
and for me similarity in culture and moral is really important to continue our friendship, even when you have different beliefe, If we have similiarity in thought and could find the way each other thinking, it's still works
And most important is, I'm actually looking forward for a long process of friendship for my partner in the future. because it's a really important steps for me before I decided Is he the one in my life, that I can stand for a long time.
So in this case, faithful person is the one I need, friendship need a commitment, marriage need a hardest and stronger commitment. and during that friendship we can find out does he someone that can be cooperate even when Love is hardly to feel any more? someone that knows his responsibility?. this characters i believe not easy to figure out in 2 or 3 months of friendship, but Lifetime :)
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